“Those who fear the LORD are secure.” (Proverbs 14:26 NLT)
Right now, I am dealing with a major decision. Neither choice is immoral. One of them is more rational, while the other is more godly. The rational choice would benefit me immediately. Since it makes sense from a human perspective, it would also bring approval from the world. In contrast, the godly choice is nonsensical. It would make me look stupid in front of my peers. But it would honor God. Which one will I choose?
“We are more concerned about looking stupid (fear of people) than we are about acting sinfully (fear of the Lord).” —Edward T. Welch
Fear of people induces approval-seeking behavior. This isn’t usually recognized as a ‘fear’ as much as a desire. We want others to think well of us, respect us, and admire us--what’s wrong with that? Well, what if the world’s standards go against God’s standards? What if sin is the norm? What if doing what God calls us to do seems crazy?
Fear of the Lord cultivates a deep reverence for God. It motivates us to honor God above all else. Making moral compromises becomes even more painful than facing the disapproval of others.
“But be sure to fear the LORD and faithfully serve him. Think of all the wonderful things he has done for you.” (1 Samuel 12:24 NLT)
I am tempted to not talk about things that invite human disapproval--to just keep things to myself. Vulnerability, transparency, and honesty can be humiliating and isolating. I can either succumb to fear of people or learn to fear God...but not both. I cannot faithfully serve the Lord and always please worldly people. Yet, I want to honor God in everything I do.
Lord, I feel drained. Please fill me up with your Holy Spirit. Give me the courage and strength to face the world’s disapproval if it honors You. Amen.
By reading this, I think you will do the right thing. What seems foolish to man is often the very best thing to do when it honors the Lord. What we do for Him lasts and has eternal reward. And I pray you will be filled with the Spirit and not drained.